I'll go with that - never make promises you don't intend to keep, height of bad manners and that. And don't forget, there are women out there who are just after a bit of gratuitous sex too. Men don't have the monopoly on that!

Be honest, but don't declare all your intentions at once though, leave something for him to find out the next time....

Always make a friend first. That way, they quite often remain your friends after the gratuitous sex.... Plus you get to meet their freinds and that can lead anywhere!

US rules are not written in stone, if you mention your previous lifestyle, you may get a nibble.... UK rules aren't - girls call guys, and vice versa (that's guys calling girls, rather than girls calling girls but hey, it's nearly the 21st Century.... go with it!)

LTS