After 48 years of marriage, and one year of widowhood (if that's a word)I find that I am a bit apprehensive. I cannot even imagine starting over as we did it in the 1950s. Some of you may wonder why anyone at my age would even bother, but one does wish for someone to be with, to communicate and even love, even at an advanced age. A few moments after being told that my wife died, I turned to my son and said, "My life has totally changed." I never knew how much it would. I'm scared to death to get back into the dating game and all the games people play. However, I'm gonna do it!

DougR