As it has been pointed out above in different ways, the rules seem to be mostly about either manipulating or allowing oneself to be manipulated. Neither appeals to me. I don't play games and don't like to be around those who do.

As to the subject of rebounds: I am unaware of what the time frame is for labeling a post-relationship, relationship a rebound. Two months? Two years? I think it is all about where your head is when you find someone who interests you. A truly awesome experience is to find someone who will stay beside you while you figure out where your head is at.

I have learned that while honesty is a great thing to share, it works even better when your partner (or potential partner) is in agreement (i.e., not put off or intimidated) with one great principle: Ask for what you want.