ROTFLMAO! How do you KNOW you're an American? When Peter's last post is more offensive than the thought of Meebs and sheep.....ya really need to quit browsing in the bargain bins, Pete!

Max has the right idea, and it sounds neutral to gender or country of origin, just be patient. Why not incorporate your previous style of dating to the area you are in now? A group of friends is still a group of friends, regardless of which side of the pond you are on.

~Elle