I agree with jOhn and KT...

I do not like "automatic" anything! It sorta bothers me that one visit to see what Mudcat's Facebook page was like suddenly got my email filled with invites....5-6 from people I have no idea whether I know.

I do like OPTIONS to find people, music...etc.. and to know HOW to contact people...like Mudcat PMs. I don't think my brain is wired for random daily chatter.. *wry grin*

My wife 'does' some Facebook stuff, and finds some nice contacts with friends, but she says there is a lot of trivial posting about 'favorite flavors of Jello', or the like. I can get about all of that I can handle in Mudcat BS threads.

I 'may' change my mind and try it later, but....

to quote jOhn's remark: "note-to anyone that sent me invite or whatever, if i don't answr i'm not been ungrateful or ignorant, i'm just doing other stuff, working, studying etc."