Update. She's not doing well. After a promising start, the diarrhoea and vomiting returned, along with bowel pains. She's close to losing hope and the will to live, and very depressed, and convinced that it's secondary bowel tumours. She's seen her GP, who diagnosed a bad dose of irritable bowel- apparently it's quite common for hysterectomy post- op. She doesn't believe him.

She has a CAT scan on Wednesday; that should prove her right or (!!!!!!!) wrong. You can't argue with the evidence.

I love her more than ever. I'll love her till I die whatever happens.