Moonchild,... You are wonderful.The 'net chats seem to be like snake pits, but this one is indeed different. Lotsa tention in our lives with no place to turn. Keep thinking good thoughts, and try to let the jerks down easy. It isn't about hurting them back, like some would say,... its about tai-chi.
ttr, (who otta listen to his own advice more often)...('!')