Someone asked me how much good a note in a thread like this, from a rank stranger, can do. I replied:
When I was new here, the Patons personally invited me to come to a festival. That's how they feel about rank strangers. :~)
I Flow blessings to all who have lost a dear one, young or old, recently or not so recently. This is a community that stays close in the hard times, and I give thanks to be a small part of it.