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Thread #122614   Message #2692144
Posted By: McGrath of Harlow
02-Aug-09 - 09:59 AM
Thread Name: BS: I blame the parents ...
Subject: RE: BS: I blame the parents ...
I always get uncomfortab;e about the term "quality time", with its implication that what kids need is parents who just occasaionlly drop everything else and for a measured time concentrrate their attention on being with them, and that this makes up for not being there the rest of the time.

I don't mean that it isn't a good thing to do that - but what kids really need as well, and probably need more, I'd say, is "non-quality time", where parents are around and available doing stuff in the background, so to speak.