This will probably be a thread for blowing off steam, but that could be worthwhile.I used to work in Los Angeles booking bands -- you know, getting work for real live (union) musicians. It was such a bummer when a party would say, "We're going in a different direction." I hate that expression. It means they are hiring a D.J. instead of a live band.
I've tried to be polite, but at times I have said, "Why don't you get someone from your (club/office/...) to bring a record player for nothing?" .. you cheap SOB.
I have sworn a solemn oath that I will never attend a DJ party. These guys have no talent -- but they're cheap. You get what you pay for.
== Johnny in OKC