gervase, i don't agree with your treatment of george and others, although i understand your' frustrations. but in this instance you are quite right! it is one thing not to let things go, but to jump on them so heavily might be doing more harm than good.
let them play their games and only respond when it gets to a certain level. i will try to take my own advice, i might fail, but i will try.
i did have a question relating to the topic, but after catching up, i have forgotten it, so back i go until i remember, which might be a while, if i am too long, send a search party please?