I'm with you too, Kat. The whole social life is arranged around church and couples.
And I also feel the fact that I am "here" and you all are "there."

and onereason I've been so bad about gettingto the Y is the way people will not respect your boundaries (common in small towns) -- bugging me about library stuff, etc. That happens everywhere.

I seem to be losing more weight, though -- pants still getting looser; one nice jacket I couldn't close last spring now a bit loose. I don't know how the weight is really bewcause I haven't weighed. Waling a lot.

On the de-clutter front, I bagged up all my old feature film videos for a friend who wants them. Also the video player, which has been hooked up to nothing for 10 years.

Still have a bunch of tapes I recorded stuff on; don't know what to do with them -- if someone wants to record over them, or I should just toss them.