I have been through the same sort of thing many moons ago. I was too ill to carry on supporting him and decided 'What price peace of mind'. Made the big mistake of taking the responsibility of most of our business debts to ease his situation and was advised by his medical team to move out to assist his recovery. What a bad move - he had another woman within three months and the delay in selling our house left me penniless. Went to Al-anon but found the Co-dependency Group helped me better. HOWEVER 'What price peace of mind' came into its own and I am now happily living on my own, surrounded by good friends and folkies. Be careful, don't fall for the same type again - it has been known|