I worried a bit about running this thread but I'm glad I did.
We are a real community, a very real village......but a cyber one. In a 3D village we would have known and also had the physical presence to help the grief process, This is the best we can do and though its not enough, its something...................
I neglected to add to my first post my sincerest and best thoughts to Susan's family. I'm glad they shared her with us.