Middle class means You cant answer the original question in a forthright and open manner, without first making sure that any other middle class person reading this thread is aware of your,education and position in society.
You will also be struggling between the need you feel to establish your entitlement(to whatever you feel it is others have or may have or may be plotting to have), and the not "quite niceness" of having to do so.
Mustn't seem too needy eh?
Now which cheek did I leave my tongue in?
LOL