I rarely read this sort of thread beyond the third or fourth post ... life is too short. Not quite sure why I read this one to the end.
It is astounding to me that so much psychic energy has been invested in exploring a thread that started bcause someone left the Cafe because someone else behaved badly.
I haven't been a Mudcatter long but am awed by the generous and friendly help I have recieved when I needed it. I will try to stick to the musically oriented posts in the future.

Edmund the Incombustible