Thank you all for your kind thoughts, the life goes on and after about a week I have to go to work again after my summerholyday and my band are playing next month I think, so I think it is better to have something to do after shock like this. My family got some help through all this and that is a very good matter. Kat where did you get those Icelandic words? I´ll write these in Icelandic. Þakka ykkur fyrir hlýjan hug í okkar garð, og megi guð vera með ykkur. Thank you all for kind thoughts and may god be with you. Slán ljatt agus gora reif míla ma hagat. Dia Duit. All the best skarpi Iceland.