"that what we say in the heat of the moment is who we really are."

Yep, and those are the people I trust because you take them as they are warts and all.

Though you missed my point, some people *don't* show their cards ever, and those are the ones to genuinely fear. Most of us are mid-way between.

My Mother was an Aries, she could make the house quake with her rages, but it was over ten minutes later. Scorpios on the other hand.. (sorry, thread drift)