David

I am relatively new to mudcat so only now learning of your loss. 36 is too young.

Thankful for what guest from sanity said... I will try to not to just mark the days when I can be with my daughter again. I will try to remember to include her in the little and big things I do every day and imagine what she would say to this song, that book, this event.

Lovely website by your wife, shows what a kind and caring person she was. I hope you will share some stories about her.

Last May I started a birthday memoriam thread for my Andie to tell, stories about her and record what others have said about her. Helped me share the wonderful girl and young woman that I and others knew. Helped me realise she isn't completely gone. I may not be able to hug her, sing and laugh with her, but she still provided some entertainment and wisdom and vibrancy to the mudcatters who read that thread. So very much alive in a very important way. Not merely physical.

Your memories of Heide can do the same.


Much love

Tamara