Been with my wife nearly 30 years. I'm 50, she's 48.

We're entering the irregular periods, mood swings & hot flushes,
and restless fidgetting about in bed phase of her life cycle..

She has always had a healthy 'appetite'
and requires a few minutes lazy cuddly habitual sex most mornings
to wake her up enough so she get out of bed to go to work.
No problems with her 'natural body lube' functions yet.

She expects me to perform without fail, and so far so good...
But since an episode of painful friction soreness a couple of years ago
I have been secretly smearing a dob of vaseline
around my foreskin before I go to bed,
just to speed things up a bit and protect my delicate 'banjo string'
from further injury.

fingers crossed for a long healthy future together...