TO SORCHA, NO "YOU" HAVE NOT OFFENDED ME. I THINK IT IS GOOD TO UNWIND AND AS THE EXPRESSION GOES...LET YOUR HAIR HANG LOOSE. I FIND THAT IS THE BEST WAY SOMETIMES TO UNWIND. TAR (CHUCK) AND SANDYTOES SENDS THEIR REGARDS AND SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE TO LOOSE SOMEONE YOU LOVE. JUST IN THE PAST 7 MONTHS, I HAVE LOST SEVERAL SEVERAL DEAR FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS. JUST KNOW MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU DURING THIS TIME OF LOSS. LIFTING YOU UP IN PRAYERS. JUST KNOW THAT GOD IS WITH YOU DURING THIS TIME. TURN TO HIM FOR HELP. HE IS OUR STRENGTH AND SOURCE OF GUIDANCE AND WISDOM. BUT, NO YOU DID NOT OR HAVE NOT OFFENDED ME. I HOPE IT WAS REWARDING AND MADE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR DIFFICULT DAY. GOD BLESS YOU, SORCHA. SINCERELY, SANDY TOES