Virginia Tam - I was joking, thats why I put a smiley afterwards :-)
Its important for people to pick up on these things. If I hadn't put the smiley, then that would have been different.

I can understand your issues as I will undoubtedly die before my wife who is 11 years younger than me. My health is not great. Worse for me is that I will leave my lovely Autistic daughter behind and when my wife dies, she is on her own and that is more unbearable than anybody can ever realise.

So take it easy, we need humour at times.