The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #125430   Message #2780612
Posted By: JohnInKansas
04-Dec-09 - 12:30 PM
Thread Name: BS: Sex after menopause - is there?
Subject: RE: BS: Sex after menopause - is there?
While menopause is one factor that is of some significance, it is only one of a whole spectrum of life changes that can, if permitted, inhibit "sex" as the age of the partners advances. If one persists in the notion that the "20 second spurt" is the only thing that "sex" is about, then it's likely that "sex" will become less readily accomplished with the progression of age (if it hasn't already become boring enough to be completely abandoned).

As long as the desire to induce physical (sexual) pleasure in one's partner continues, it often becomes necessary to explore extension and variation of techniques, the acquisition and application of supplies and tools/apparatus, additional attention to settings and mood, and the willingness to "work a little harder." (No pun intended.)

With appropriate attention to the needs of both partners, "sex" - although it may be somewhat different from the "slam and bam" of youth - can only get better, if only for the reason that for both partners it requires more effort and






It takes lasts a lot longer (if you do it right).

John