L-o-C:

I had my first full orgasm (with a long-term partner)after the menopause, and when his problem with acute premature ejaculation had succumbed to the passing years. It's a long story, and not for public consumption.

I wish you luck, even if I don't share your lubrication issues.

I see no problem with discussing such subjects.
If we'd been able to have these kind of discussions when we were young there would have been less problems of many kinds.