Smedley:"....don't throw the term 'homophobe' around lightly, but you deserve to have it tattooed on your forehead. "

I have to consider the source, and coming from a homosexual, you may confuse a 'homophobe' with any person who is supportive of the family structure, consisting of one man, one woman, children of those two.
Because that is out of your(and a lot of others in here) reach, don't project a phobia onto happy family people who couldn't give a rat's ass on your particular dysfunction.......(Bingo)!