LeeJ, you summed it up beautifully. I am glad to have shared what I think is one of the most profound things ever posted to Mudcat.

I hope they are playing/singing music for her. It was a tape of Jean's sister, Edna, that got me through the first night after heart surgery. Her high, sweet, calm voice, just like Jean's, singing to me, calming me, giving me something to hang onto.