Carol, you have a right to your opinion as do the people who post here. Some agree with you, many don't. That's the way it is when you say what ya gotta say. Stop being so nasty to people. Many of us have been in and are still in the trenches. Maybe not your trench, but y'ain't my ma. The fact that not everyone agrees with you does not make them revanchists, bad people or scum. You have step-ed on your crank. Read 'effed up'. Let it go.