And I promised myself that I wouldn't post on this unending thread either but it still continues to resonate, filling in some of the gaps that were glaring in the initial post.

Carol-

Do consider becoming a member so that other members may communicate with you via PM as well. Mudcat has a high tolerance for individuals when members know where they are coming from. And you have certainly made a good faith effort to respond to questions, some of them intensely personal. Who you were or what your point was, was not apparent to most members when this thread was initiated.

I was the only one who guessed that you were even involved.

And I'm still waiting for an apology from your friend who told me to "Fuck off!" on an unrelated thread.

Charley Noble