True, Smedley.

GfS doesn't seem to grasp the concept that there are things other than raw sex involved in human relationships, whether same-sex or heterosexual. S/he seems to regard human relationships in strictly selfish, predatory, and physical terms, which would certainly make him/her a counselor I would steer well clear of were I ever in need of such service. Anyone with that kind of general outlook would do more harm that good.

I live in Seattle, where, I am told the percentage of same-sex oriented folks is about 12%, and Barbara and I are fortunate enought to have a wide number of friends and acquaintances, some of whom happen to be gay or lesbian. We know six couples (four male and two female) who live in long-term, stable relationships, and they seem to be just as close and loving as any hetero relationship. One of the men is a regular in our monthly "writers' critique" group and he and his partner are frequently guests in our home during holiday celebrations.

So it's not as if I'm viewing this from afar or making it up as I go along.

I don't think either GfS or Akenaton have the wit to grasp the idea that there is more to relationships than selfish sexual gratification (of whatever variety).

Don Firth