Ake refers to the "colourful" description of rape that I offered up.

I din't mean it to be 'colorful', only graphic. It was in response to ake's fairly light-hearted reference to rape and what rape a heterosexual person/man would choose if he had to.

Well, I don't think that the term "rape" or the horrific act itsef is a joking matter. That is why I went into some detail; rape is NOT a simple sexual event- it is a hostile act of dominance.

So, "put that in your pipe and shove it"- as a person who frequently mixes metaphors said the other day.