Oddly reluctant, MtheGM, because you so succinctly sdummarised how she sees things. In GfS's world, there is an immovable hierarchy of ways to live, and no prizes for guessing whose is at the top.

You or I could say we've found our own paths to achieve great happiness, but GfS simply can't concede this, because difference is the enemy.   Unless you live life to the strictest letter of the GfS code, you can only be inferior.

I don't know whether to envy such certainty or be terrified by its utter rigidity.