Ebbie.....there are three homosexual couples in my area.....I work for them from time to time.

One is a lesbian partnership who appear very much like two old sisters very relaxed and behave very normally.
There are two male partnerships who do not mix with the locals, but have their own circle of friends who come to stay with them quite often. On their own, they appear "bitchy" and rather neurotic...like a man and wife who have grown apart and been consumed by bitterness.   They do not appear happy.

The only other homosexual I knew lived in a fake marriage and abused his male foster children sexually.....These children were my playmates when I myself was a child and into my mid teens.

I dont know what inferrences you want to draw from these details, but they are true, although of little value to this thread, I think.....other than to prove that I do know what I'm talking about.