My advice would be to stop thinking about it then! Go about your life in peace. Muttering will not do anything, no more than shouting will, because I actually think the majority of sorted straight men don't give a monkey's about gay blokes. Why would they?

All you men have far more in common with each other than the things you don't. Why let sexuality be such a major trouble when you consider all the other things a man is and can be? Man has achieved so much by co-operating with his fellows than he has by fighting them. Don't stress the differences. Embrace the similarities and let them grow.

Or would that not be being a 'true man' ;-)

mp