Who is saying it's a safe and healthy lifestyle? I never said it was a lifestyle ever (as that suggest choice).

Living is dangerous and can be unhealthy in all sorts of ways. Some are down to actual lifestyle choices but being gay is not one of them

Why do you obsess about the gay men? What about the straight people too that play their part? They also suffer mental health problems as well. I worked in psychiatry for 20 years and I came across many many more straight folks with mental health problems than I did gay. Those gay people I did come across were not depressed because of being gay. They were depressed over the treatment society was dishing out and how that affected them mostly. Lots of gay men die because of suicide... but so many are driven to it because of some of the drivel we have seen on this thread. Why can you not just let them be without constantly throwing up all the negatives that can happen to some of them? You think a straight person would not be depressed if they found they had HIV/AIDS? Have you ever seen any straights folks celebarting having any STI?

So you have no solution to the problem.

Try this. Instead of constantly bringing up all the negatives, just try thinking of all the good things that can happen for a gay man or woman. They are the same things that may bring you and I happiness for gawd's sake! They are the same as you and I. Flesh and blood. They just do sex a different way than you maybe, if they have sex at all, but is that such a wrong thing? if so, why? Get away from the disease hype. Try and think positive things.

Have you seen there are different ways to play an F chord on a guitar? They sound the same but are done differently...

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You telling me that