Perhaps that holds true in your little hamlet out on the moors, Ake, but it's not the way it is here in the United States. Most of the gay men I know—and know of—are in monogamous, stable relationships, whether the law recognizes them or not. And those who are working hardest for legal recognition of gay marriage are gays themselves, not just a bunch of "liberals" trying to tell them how they should live.

You are the one who wants to deny them that option. And who in the hell are you to tell them how they can and can't live?

How do you account for the fact that some 18,000 gay couples got married in California during the very short period between the enactment of the law that made gay marriage legal and the passage of the out-of-state religious fundamentalist funded Proposition 8, rescinding the law?

Your information is totally bogus, Ake.

Don Firth