Lizzie - it is clear you dodge all sorts of answers to questions you find difficult.

The most obvious ones are those relating to how and when these diagnoses of your family were made, especially your late father.

Another is where other than this forum you have made a contribution to discussions about autism - given your vast personal knowledge, theories and beliefs.

It actually looks like you posting (a relatively common) message from Facebook (suitably altered for autism) and then looking up articles and programmes to support your argument.

It certainly does not look as if you had any previous knowledge on the subject other than some self-diagnosis related to what you have read.

When did you first mention that your father was autistic? This thread.

And whilst you have mentioned your children before I don't recall you describing them as autistic before. Dyslexic yes, autistic - no.