Hesperis - you too, eh? Food for thought. I think I got the identity thing figured out now...did I get it right?

Lena - I have also been puzzling for a long time about the old "is it possible to sleep with someone one night, and not have them there the next day...or be there the next day yourself...talking about your future"?

We all have friends we can see on Monday, then go on with the rest of the week not worrying about it. That doesn't mean we don't love our friends. So, why can't we do that with lovers? Why do we think we own our lovers?

Have we all been brainwashed by books, movies, songs, and such?

Just what the hell is going on? I would love to have a lover whom I didn't have to worry about, the way I don't hav to worry about my friends. I'm always glad to see them when I do see them, and I'm free the rest of the time. That's the way it should be.