Further more, I consider sexuality to be a life and death matter, excuse the pun. It can also be fun.

We all know of little sisters who practiced kissing on eacy other so when they kissed a boy they will have an edge. We might even think this is cute and nothing to worry about.
Boys do this too in different ways but attitudes prevail that this is something to worry about.

In fact I think most of the hatred about the gay issue is among men who conceal a self loathing for adolescent doubts and worry about thier own sexuality. Yes the bigot is afraid he might be queer and hates others who truely are. Some of these guys are already physically effeminant and might have a name like Robin to make things worse.
THis is why I say the disease in in the minds of those who oppose gay people and lifestyles most voraciously.