Yes, this is a public forum, and seen by many more people than just those who respond openly. It is a breach of etiquette to disclose a person's surname, but to then discuss their sexual life, is even worse. I do not know who "Jennifer Ives" is, but I guarantee she is known by "some" on this very public forum. I can only imagine the humiliation she will feel when that "some" disclose to her the details of "her" sexual life.