How did I know this would be you, Lizzie? I must be learning...:-)

I think it is already in hand. If you look up learning differences you will find dozens of references. Here's one at random. I, for one, always try to use the term 'differently abled' rather than disabled as well. Makes more sense to me anyway.

I don't tend to think in terms of 'us and them' either. I hope there is far more common ground between all people that there are differences so the gap between 'us and them', whoever we are talking about, can really be a lot smaller than you think.

Hope this helps.

DeG