""If you dress with self respect, you'll be treated with self respect."

...treated with respect"

Lizzie are you implying that self respecting women never get raped? Or murdered?

No-one has absolute rights over anyone else. As a woman I certainly know it and don't expect it. I also do not blame men for everything. Some of the power struggle women have had with men has been necessary. Not too long ago a husband could not be charged with raping his wife... but it happened frequently enough. Still does I suspect... :-(

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