lizzie said "If someone licked my face, I'd clobber him."

you see lizzie, there are always certain lines that should not be crossed.
had i have been comfortable with it, it wouldn't have been a problem. all you need to do now, is put in sex instead of licking your face and you are there, it is happening. telling him no, you don't want it. you try and stop it, but he is too strong and heavy.

i am sorry for the description. if it brings back memories or upsets anyone. but these are the basics of rape. lizzie needs to hear this to try and understand how horrendous it actually is. this is not just words on a screen for alot of us, it is real.


i have been thinking about why alot of younger girls and women dress the way they do. it is all for self esteem. it is the only way they know to make themselves feel validated and worthwhile.
the difference is the intention. most go out and love it when they get eyed up or whistled at, it makes them feel good. however that does not translate into they are gagging for it.

it is one thing for a lad to yell (vulgur, yes, but not hurting anyone)
'get ya tits out'
it is a different thing for them to walk over and lift your top up to have a look for himself.

the difference is choice! whatever the intention, everyone has the right to only go as far as they feel comfortable. if that means stoppping short of full sex then that is what should be respected.