I am rapidly feeling less sorry for you, GfS. You very clearly said in the Prop 8 thread in May 2009:

"By the way, all of those who think that I have no experience with this, and that I'm just spouting from no experience with this issue, you should know that my father CHOSE a homosexual lifestyle after he had 6 children with my mother."
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"Not to get to personal, but to squash any type of statement about my father already being gay, I'll explain this. He was molested when he was a child by his father and uncle. He learned how to deal with the shame and pain of this act by storing it inside and never talking about it. This, undoubtedly, led to prolonged psychological effects that plagued him and eventually chose him to choose his lifestyle."

You were NOT postulating on anyone else's experience, you wrote in the first person. If you cannot see that, I think that you deserve no more attention from anybody.