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Thread #127384   Message #2841412
Posted By: Ruth Archer
16-Feb-10 - 06:46 PM
Thread Name: BS: 'Some rape victims should take blame'- ??
Subject: RE: BS: Some rape victims should take blame
"I mean, come on, come ON and tell me that men are free to behave in exactly the same way that *some* women are doing these days..yeah?

Let's all throw caution, self restraint, self respect, to the wind, shall we? Let's all show complete and utter selfishness towards one another, see each other as the enemy to be preyed upon...used as we want and then thrown away at the end of the evening, because hell, our lives are about 'having a great time, and to hell with any social standards!'"


So let me get this straight...you think that it's only, or even mostly, WOMEN who behave in this way?

"...if you have sons, do you sit at home thinking 'Holey Shite, PLEASE don't let him be taken in by some stupid and selfish woman who may wind him up, send out the wrong messages, then cry "RAPE!!" when nothing actually happened, other than she changed her mind and didn't want to lose face in front of her mates????

It happens!


And men get a bloody raw deal, if they're innocent, because their innocent names get plastered all over the media, whilst the lying toads who do that to them are hidden behind legal anonymity."


More to the point, mothers of sons, such as you, should tell your sons again and again and AGAIN that, no matter how much THEY might be goaded by their mates, no matter how yobbish and laddish they might be feeling in the heat of a pissed-up moment, No. Means. NO. Because, sad as ity is for blokes who get accused of crimes they've not committed, there are far, FAR more women who will never report their rape or assault, never talk about it, and who will contribute to the poisonous conspiracy of silence that surrounds sex crimes because woman-haters (of either sex) have told them they probably deserved or provoked or were somehow complicit in what happened to them.