On the subject of "where to draw the line".

If a man and a woman are having sex and the woman wants to stop, THAT MEANS STOP!

To say that he has some sort of entitlement to carry on regardless is completely FUCKED UP.

If he doesn't respect her wishes he is doing something wrong.

"she led me on" would be a ridiculous thing to say.

Sometimes, all of us can probably say that we have not felt right for one reason or another.

Sometimes ones partner can take this badly.

But human beings are not fairground rides.

You DON'T get to demand your moneys worth because you NEVER have ownersship over another person.

It is possible for two people to start out having consensual sex and then end up being players in a rape scenario.

The line folks is very simple and very clear.

If one person, at any time, decides they don't want to have sex at all or any more, then any attempt to coerce it after that point is rape.

And it is 100% the rapists responsibility.