"If it's done in complete silence it's because there is absolutely no need for words in the first place, such is your love and trust for one another."

OK so some really special people who the first time they 'do it' simply lay eyes on each other and their clothes fall to the ground and they have the most blissful night together without so much as a word being uttered! Great for them.

Then there's the rest of us who live in imperfect fumble land who communicate what we like and want with our lovers..