"There are no grey areas."

Your black & white world must be... very different from the one that I inhabit. I'm not saying that I could not hear a "No". But you too glibly dismiss too many things, and are too ready to attribute blame.

Which way it suits you to attribute that blame, I am indifferent to; mostly I object to the fact that you will blindly point the finger. People are people, and when things go wrong, people are at fault. Male, female, assailant, victim; these things are, all too often, not clear cut.