"If you are NOT prepared to go all the way, but you lead a man into thinking you are, and then chaos ensues, you've been bloody stupid."

Women, and men for that matter, must retain the right to be able to change their minds. They may fancy the pants off a guy, go to his place, then see the state of him when he undresses... anything! All sorts of reasons why women change their mind at the last minute.

A change of mind should not in any way mitigate him carrying on with his free will. Yes, it's unfair maybe on him, but with no malicious intent she is fully entitled to back out.

INHO

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