""... not, Don, that I disagree with Jeddi that you did just the right thing on that occasion: but even if you hadn't, you still wouldn't be as 'guilty', in any possible meaningful sense, as a real violent serial rapist.""

YES I WOULD!

I'm not an animal, governed by uncontrollable instinct. I'm a rational being, and if I transgress it means that the following are true.

1) I choose to take an action I know to be wrong.
2) I am capable of rape
3) I place my desires above the rights of others.

GUILTY AS HELL!

Jade, you had to be there. This one was the genuine 24 carat prick teaser, who lay stark naked on a bed, laughing her head off, and told me what a damn fool I was to think I was getting anything out of her.

If I can sit here and state categorically that she had the right to change her mind, that should take care of the responsibility issue once and for all.

Some men are rapists, and they commit rape. The circumstances are irrelevant, as far as the harm done is concerned.

I will forever take issue with anyone who says that the victim of that crime is responsible for the capacity to harm of such a man.

I am not overly proud of throwing her out, but it was preferrable to hitting her, something I was brought up never to do.

As for blowing the whistle, I make no apology, given that I probably saved one or more men from the same, and also probably saved her, for a time, from picking a wrong'un and being raped.

Now I've said all I intend to say on the subject.

Don T.