yup david those Bolivian unicyclists will get you every time! LOL

lox, i think you are onto something.
rhe guy who did it to me, kept telling me to tell him how much i wanted it how much i was enjoying it. he didn't listen when i told him i didn't and i wasn't. he seems to fall into the catagory you describe.
although there were other aspects, like it was my birthday and i was pretty stoned.

there is the other issue for course that it was pretty late, i was wasted and it was a fair walk home. i might have met a uncyclist and been in trouble anyway.

for me sometimes bad things happen for a reason, in my case it brought happyness and i would not have left to meet edi.

so i am if not grateful but glad it happened no matter how horendous it was or howmuch it messed me up for a while.

love
jade x x x x